The Year of the Stone
May 26, 2011
I do not know where I got this idea from, but I used to think that there is a spell happening when two people are in love, as if the fairytales were true and as if no one is immune to that spell when it hits you, but by the years as I age, I began to realize how silly my thoughts were when it came down to love, and how childish it sounded, especially when I got my heart broken for the first time, I told myself that the only spells that work would be the spell a person does to another person when he or she breaks his or heart. Even I am ashamed to admit that the level of lameness to this belief is off the roof, but somehow this spell worked for me and I guess my sarcasm was just taking a hold of the better of me when I started thinking this way, although now I know that there are no spells, which makes it even sadder, and how there are only people and their thoughts and efforts in loving somebody or breaking a heart of a person. I do still believe in love, and I know that love can happen, and I think that every person has to go through heartaches in order to grow, because these heartaches make a person stronger, not just in love, but in life as well, because love is not something that can happen between two people, it is something that can happen to any one, any group of people without limitations or exact definitions. Being a heartbroken person is a tough thing to conquer, but now I am a very positive person, because dwelling on the negatives will only make a situation worse, and this attitude is how I deal with heartaches, because I may be a heartbroken person, but I am nevertheless happy.